Quick Overview
ThaiToMatch is built around one principle: real people, real travel, total consent. Men never “hunt” profiles. Women are never exposed or pressured. Everything is designed to avoid fake chats, endless subscriptions, and the “lottery feeling”.
If you want the complete framework, read the Rules page first. The FAQ is here to remove doubts and prevent misunderstandings.
For Travelers (Men)
You create a profile and become visible for a limited time window. You cannot message women, and you don’t browse a catalog. If a woman shows interest, you’ll see who she is (photo + first name + age + intention). Then — and only then — you decide what to do.
For Ambassadors (Women)
You join a private platform where you decide: who you interact with, when, and how. No man can contact you directly. Verification is optional and presented as an advantage, not an obligation.
1) What is ThaiToMatch (TTM), exactly?
ThaiToMatch is not a dating app. It’s a private, human-controlled platform built around a real travel window. You don’t “chat for months”. You don’t “collect matches”. You become visible for a limited time, and verified Thai women decide if they want to interact.
2) Is there swiping, ranking, or an algorithm?
No. There is no swipe, no ranking, and no algorithmic manipulation. The platform avoids addictive mechanics on purpose.
3) Can men browse women’s profiles or message first?
No. Men do not browse a list of women, do not search, and do not message first. There is no internal chat to “spam” people. Interaction starts only if a woman shows interest.
4) What does “reverse dating” mean here?
It means the usual power dynamic is reversed: the traveler becomes visible, and women choose if they want to engage. This reduces scams, fake chats, and “subscription traps”, and protects women from unwanted contact.
5) What information does a man share during registration?
A traveler typically provides a public pseudo and photo, plus internal identity info for safety (not public), and travel-related data (arrival date / time window). The goal is simple: real trip, real person.
The public part is designed to stay clean and respectful. The internal part exists to protect the platform and its members.
6) What does a man see before paying?
The philosophy is: no one should pay to interact with “the void”. Before activation, you can see proof of activity such as profile views and real interest signals. No fake chats, no bots, no “pay to unlock a surprise”.
How do I check my status after registration?
After registration, you cannot contact anyone. Your profile simply becomes visible to ambassadors.
If an ambassador shows interest, your status will change automatically. To check your status, come back to the site and log in here: /_private/men/login.php.
When a connection is validated, WhatsApp access will appear in your private space for 48 hours.
There are no automatic notifications. This is intentional to stay private, simple, and to avoid spam or pressure.
7) When a woman shows interest, what does the man see?
You see who she is: typically photo, first name, age, a possible Verified badge, and her intention (Interested / Want to meet / WhatsApp access if granted).
8) How does WhatsApp work (and why is it safe)?
WhatsApp is treated as the real world — not a dating feature. Key rule: the woman’s number is never exposed (not in HTML, not in client JS, no direct wa.me link visible). When WhatsApp is allowed, the server checks conditions (valid session, active status, permission not expired/revoked) and then redirects securely.
Access is typically temporary (48 hours) and can be revoked anytime by the woman.
9) What is the “48 hours” rule?
If WhatsApp access is granted, it’s valid for up to 48 hours. It expires silently, with no emotional pressure or manipulative messages. The woman can renew it — or do nothing.
10) What is “Verified” and is it mandatory?
Verified is a badge that signals additional trust (adult status confirmed + identity known internally by TTM). It is free and optional. It is presented as an advantage: verified profiles tend to receive more serious interest.
11) What happens if a woman is under 22?
Verification can become contextual for safety. That means: it is not demanded at signup, but may be required at the moment of a direct intention (e.g., meeting or sharing WhatsApp access).
12) Is there any guarantee of meeting someone?
No. ThaiToMatch does not sell fantasies. There is no guaranteed result. You pay for visibility inside a real, consent-based system — not for a promised outcome.
13) Are refunds possible?
The policy is strict: no refunds, no “tests”, and no “I changed my mind” after activation. This prevents abuse and keeps the platform serious.
14) What payments are accepted?
TTM uses straightforward, traceable payment methods. Typically: PayPal, SEPA bank transfer, and Viva. (No Stripe.)
15) How long does a profile stay active?
Profiles are designed to be time-limited to avoid “zombie databases”. At the end of the cycle, profiles are removed and data is purged according to platform rules.
16) What if someone behaves badly or tries to bypass the rules?
There are clear sanctions for abusive, disrespectful, or bypass behavior: reporting, blocking, and immediate removal from the platform. TTM acts — it does not negotiate.
17) Is TTM public? Can my information be scraped?
The platform is designed to limit exposure and prevent scraping. Sensitive data (like WhatsApp numbers and verification documents) are never displayed to the public and are never exposed client-side.
18) What is TTM NOT (important)?
TTM is not: a swipe app, a matchmaking algorithm, a chat subscription business, a catalog of women, or a “guaranteed girlfriend” service. It is a controlled connection window, based on consent and real travel.
Still unsure?
Read the Rules (public) and the Concept page. If you agree with the philosophy, you’ll love the simplicity. If you’re looking for a classic dating app, TTM is not for you.